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...the "Wedding Specialist" introduced herself to me and shook my hand. She then turned around and started walking us back to the conference room without even acknowledging Alex. During the consultation, she addressed all the questions to me, without asking Alex his opinion on anything.That's been my experience in most things. At one venue, my fiancée even thanked the event coordinator afterwards for acknowledging me, since she had been the first to actually do so.
I'll leave you with a bit of advice. Don't shoot your fiancée in the eye with a Nerf gun.